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Dr. Sidd is game as long as she is willing, not missing any teeth, has a place to do it, no risk of him getting crushed under her weight, she has no problem with him using protection all the time, no matter how long they’ve known each other. He doesn’t care about ass, b00bs much as long as they are not missing because of some accident/disease etc. Of course Dr. Sidd is by no means a certified expert BUT whatever he says does make sense.
From his 32yrs of experience dealing/living/working with women Dr. Sidd noticed few things…
- Women have a need to connect, needed, appreciated, accepted and most of them will do whatever within their power to do so. No need to blame men or society. Women will dig their own holes on their own.
- Low self-esteem is very noticeable in most women. Not sure if this is genetic or not. I’m sure society and men will get blamed somehow. We men can never win!
- Women in general contradict themselves a lot, don’t really know what they want, have unrealistic expectations. They say they want the truth but can’t handle the truth.
- Most men don’t care about your body type. It is YOU who is all tangled up with body image issues. I have yet to meet one woman who has no body image issue. Yes both sexes have things we are not comfy with BUT women take that more seriously than men imo. Men don’t ask you to spend hours and tons of money on you, you’ve decided those things help YOU get men. More of you do it, more of us get used to it, that’s about it.
- Does anything matter? No. Why? Because we’ll all die anyways! :D So do or don’t do what you want or not. Just don’t bother me!
an issue that has always been of great curiosity to me is that of men’s opinions on the female body. society has attempted to make us females feel that we must be thin and fit to attract the male population, but i am quite sure that this is not true because, for any topic, opinions vary.
i’ve wondered how men felt about the female body; if you see a naked woman, what is the first thing that you think of? “oh, gross, fat” or “awesome, boobs” are the two thoughts i would imagine would come up, but i would rather get some direct opinions on the matter.
please re-blog or comment with your feelings so that i may feel appeased.
Usually there are only two situations that I’m going to see a naked woman:
1. It’s someone who wants to be seen naked. This can include strippers as well as (usually drunk) women at a concert feeling a need to flash and taking it maybe a bit further at the afterparty (thanks again Old School, for teaching a new generation the glories of streaking.) I’m either kind of indifferent or extra picky in situations like this (sort of like how I act when I’m looking at porn.)
I’ve seen enough nekkid, nude, and naked women to no longer immediately go “ooooh boobies”. So I may just go “meh.”
2. Or, I’m about to have sex, or at least give my fingers, tongue, jaw etc. a good workout (oh, by the way, you may end up finding out more than you wanted to know about me reading this post. What can I say, I enjoy cunnilingus in most—re: no 70s full bush—cases.)
I may make a couple mental notes in my head (ranging from sort of sweet-ish things like “wow, she’s really kind of tiny, and my hand can nearly cover both shoulder blades” or “sweet, she must get waxed) but mostly, I’d rather enjoy the moment.
Sure, I’m can be kind of nitpicky about things (but stuff like nipple size will vary from guy to guy ladies, same as pubic hair length.) But really, we wouldn’t be getting naked if there wasn’t at least physical attraction. And don’t worry, I know I’m no Abercrombie & Fitch model myself.
And for the record, Nicole Ritchie-level skinniness=NOT Sexy. And personally, I’m far more a nice booty/nice legs man than a boob guy. But the brain and heart are what I really fall for, and thus far, plastic surgeons can’t do anything about them if they aren’t right.
